I have never been the type of person to alter my personality or the way I am just to please someone or to "fit in" to a certain situation. I am the way I am for a reason, and if you don't like it or can't accept it, then I really don't think that having you in my life is the best choice. I mean, I'm not saying that I'm never going to change the way I act, because I know how to be polite when I need to. But if someone doesn't like me because they "think I'm a bad person", then they are ignorant and aren't taking the time to actually get to know me. I would prefer it if they assumed those things, got to know me so they can check their facts, and IF they still believe that, then they can go about their life. Unfortunately, that isn't always the case.
I come off as rude and inconsiderate 65% of the time. Truth is, I'm just overly sarcastic because I don't see a point in showing my ENTIRE personal right off that bat. I'm not a horrible person, and anyone who has known me long enough can agree with that. I have a sensitive side and I get pretty emotional. But certain people who will be left unnamed don't seem to see that.
Sure, I've made some mistakes that are unforgivable. But last time I checked, NO ONE IS PERFECT. Now I'm not ranting about this person because I hate them, but because they are a perfect excuse for someone that can't get over their own issues with cheaters/liars/sarcasm and take the time to get to know someone. I'm sure it wouldn't kill you and if we end up not being friends, then so be it. But you'll never know until you try. Whether or not said person will read this is irrelevant. I doubt they will since they want nothing to do with me, but this is more of letting people know that being ignorant and close minded really isn't the best way to live your life. I did it for a while and then I realized that if you stay close minded your entire life, you won't get to experience things and meet people that have a different outlook on life.
I know that certain people reading this may or may not understand who this is about, but WHO doesn't really matter in this situation. The issue is WHY said person is choosing to give me the cold shoulder over and over. (I'll get immature and say that he/she has deleted/blocked and denied me on Facebook more times than I can remember.) I've told my friend Katie that I'm done trying at least four times. But this is my final time. I did nothing to this person that affected them personally. And the things that they think were personal (which were not) are over and done with and have been worked out.
So all in all, people need to get over themselves and get to know people before they jump to conclusions.
-krh
